How can you get your wife back now before it is too late? Most people who have been close to leaving a marriage know that the longer you wait, the more you risk not being able to turn back time and rediscover the reasons why you got married in the first place. The more time that goes by after a split, the more room there is for another person to become involved. Your wife may be feeling lonely and unloved and there is always someone waiting in the wings to help her rediscover what’s been missing and start feeling happier.
Marriages break down for all sorts of reasons but the main one is a lack of communication – which is a lack of listening and making time to fully hear what’s being said. Life can just sometimes get in the way too. There may not have been an affair or other serious issue. You may just have simply drifted apart. Perhaps you thought your relationship would always be there. Now you find there is a big gap between you and somehow you have got to close the gap and become connected again to get your wife back now..
It is easy to take your significant other for granted without meaning too. We often spend more time worrying about our job, our families, our friends or our kids while believing that our other half is fine. By the time you factor in the time spent on your job and your kids, it leaves very little for your Mrs. This can lead to your wife feeling you no longer love her or have time for her. So to turn this around and get your wife back now you have to take action and be consistent with it so she believes things will turn around.
Love is like a plant. It takes care and nurturing to blossom. Without sunshine (attention), it withers and dies. However just like a plant, love can be revived if your willing to put out the effort.
Try talking to your wife and find out why she left. What’s missing for her? Is there something in particular that she is unhappy with? Perhaps she believes you are involved with someone else. If you are not, convince her of your innocence. If you are, you need to make a decision as to which person you want to be with. You cannot have two significant others in your life and expect life to go on as before. The thing is that your wife will respond if you take the time to show her that she matters and is a priority to you.
Remind your wife of the good times you shared and all the reasons why you fell in love with her. Flatter her but be sincere and truthful – honest, remember she knows you perhaps better than you know yourself and manipulation just won’t work. Don’t get angry or try laying blame at her door. Never threaten her, your kids or imply that you will harm yourself. You will only frighten her or else she will pity you. Neither emotion is the one you are looking for. Start with connecting as friends. She will feel safe that way and be able to talk to you much easier. Never
Admit that although you both have made mistakes, now is the time to move on and work things out. Perhaps you won’t be able to get your wife back but at least you will have tried everything.
Don’t be too heavy or too desperate. You want her to find you attractive again and nobody likes a desperate man. Be strong and confident. Show her exactly what you want while at the same time convincing her that you are prepared to do what she wants or at least meet her more than half way.
Go get your wife back now and hopefully you will get to celebrate your golden years together, forever.