Feel like you’ve exhausted every option you could think up on your own and you just want to storm into some marriage counselors’ office and shout, “Help me save my marriage? Please!” Except for the shouting part, you’re actually on the right track looking for advice from some place other than your own head.
Marriage Trouble Help Can Be Found With The Following Save My Marriage Sources.
Married Friends that have a lasting marriage and made it through their marriage trouble!
If you have any friends who’ve managed to dodge an impending divorce bullet, ask them how they did it. Don’t just think about friends your age, either. Older couples can be a goldmine of advice on working through marriage trouble. They are great sources of how they got through the bumps in a marriage and came out happier and closer than when they first started out. They will also be able to be a great source of comfort and wisdom having been down the marriage trouble path before.
Even if they seem to have a perfect relationship now, you might be surprised to hear what they’ve gone through. Of course, the problem with asking friends for advice is their experience is limited to what worked for them. What worked for them won’t necessarily work for you, though but can definitely give you hope for a better marriage and knowing that it can be accomplished if you stay the course to fixing your marriage.
Online forums and marriage trouble articles!
The Internet is great place to find information on just about everything and marriage is no exception. The advantage of getting advice from forums is that you can ask questions anonymously and get opinions from a variety of people who’ll most likely have very different view points from you. The drawback is that you won’t get a truly useful response from one “help me save my marriage” post. The lack of real-time interaction means you don’t get the back-and-forth dialogue you’d need to really get to the root of your problems and find a workable solution.
It’s one of the first thing well meaning friends ask when you admit your marriage is on the rocks: “Have you thought of marriage counseling?” There’s good reason for that. Try marriage coaching. More effective than traditional therapy and marriage counseling. A professional, Marriage Coach is trained in resolving marital conflicts and has many years of experience working with different types of couples and problems. Marriage Coaching helps get the root cause of the issues and provide the tools and skills that will change the couple’s relationship when put in place so you don’t stay stuck or repeat old destructive patterns. Marriage Coaching is proactive where I can partner with the couple to create the relationship you need.
Sometimes one spouse doesn’t want to go. Usually, that partner believes the marriage has already at a point of no return and any attempt to revive it is a waste of time and energy. If you’re partner feels that way, don’t give up just yet. While you want to avoid pressuring or begging, simple logic can work wonders. You start going and seeing what you can do to change things first. It just takes one spouse in a marriage to change to turn a marriage around and help the marriage thrive again.
Marriage Coaching can help, Let’s see if this a a great option for you. Contact me today.
Self-help books on Marriage!
If you’ve been looking online for tips, you’ve probably run into a few of those ebooks that provide guidance for working through a rough patch in a marriage even when one partner is ready to call it quits. They may not seem like much, but in reality, the best of these can be surprisingly effective.
Most of these plans were developed by highly experienced marriage counselors who found a “formula” for what works, so they usually have a success rate higher than that of most marriage counselors.
Whatever you do, don’t delude yourself into thinking the marriage trouble between you and your spouse will disappear on its own. It’s not enough to sit and wonder “Who can help me save my marriage?” You need to decide where you’re going to go for sound advice and act on that advice as soon as possible. The longer you put it off, the harder your marriage problems will be to solve. The best way to turn things around is to take action now using all the marriage resources you find helpful to you and your situation.